What is it about human culture that makes us gravitate toward
binaries? We thrive in the realm of ‘black or white,’ ‘male or female,’ ‘good
or bad,’ ‘us or them.’ And it’s the last one, us or them that is
presently causing me the most grief. Is it the fault of our language, or the
fault of our thought processes as determined by nature or physiology, that
leads us to rely so heavily on categorization as a means to organize and
understand our perception of the world?
People love groups. We love to group things. This is this type of thing. This is that type of thing. They are this
type of people. There are some pretty basic incarnations of this often
limiting habit: grocery store aisles, restaurant menus, a phonebook (if anyone
remembers what those are.) The danger in accepting this worldview as the norm
is not its necessarily inclusion, but exclusion. By including filet mignon on
only the ‘dinner’ section of a restaurant menu, we are saying “filet mignon is
neither a breakfast food nor a lunch food.” But is that true about filet
mignon? Are we not receiving the same amount of calories and nutrition and
flavor no matter when in the day we eat filet mignon?
This is where social discrimination comes from. Despite the
continuum of human skin color, we see black, white, brown, (and formerly yellow
and red). If you are not one, you must be the other. If you are not young, you
must be old. If you are not man, you must be woman. But the truth is complex.
And it may be in complexity that the problem lies. Is it so easy to view the
world categorically that we fall into the habit by way of laziness?
It’s easy to form groups. Waiting in any food service line that’s
moving too slowly, doesn’t it become incomparably easy to talk to the stranger
in front of or behind you? “This is ridiculous, why is it taking so long?” “I
know, right?” Instantly you’re connected because you realize you’re in the same
group of people; you’re all in a group of hungry people with things to do other
than wait in a line. Dare I mention Team Edward and Team Jacob? It’s easy to
create a social ‘other.’ It’s easy to say “I like/dislike people that are/do
x.”
But people are more complex than that. We each know that about
our individual selves, but find it difficult to see that in our other human companions.
We organize in categories, and allow this to inform our view of things that are
unable to be categorized. Like, yeah, you can say that lemons and bananas are
both Yellow Fruits, but ultimately, one is a lemon, and one is a banana. They
serve different functions. They are distinct and unique and individual. We must
adopt a means of understanding the world that is as complex as the world we’re
trying to understand.
This post is what i like to call inception as in it got way to deep. but its somthing that i feel people need to read. i was reminded of a quote from the show nip/tuck "labels are for cans of tuna not people" and thats something i think people need to understand. Not everything is black or white, and i struggle to be around people who feel that way. I dont understand societies need to label everything, somethings just are what they are and lets leave them be.
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